JL King’s written about it and R Kelly has song about it.
Do you think there’s a D-L (Downlow) epidemic spreading the nation? Although I know there are men out there on the DL, fortunately I haven’t had a personal experience with one.
I would hope that I would know. Just like when a man cheats…warning signs are there. We either choose to act on them or ignore them. I feel that I would see some type of warning signs. But quite honestly, in my heart I wouldn’t want to believe that he was gay or cheating on me with a man, so I would probably be in a state of denial first and only God could help him if my instincts proved to be true.
How would you deal with finding out that your man that you’ve been married to or dating is bi-sexual, gay or whatever word you want to use?