Is He or She Your Type?

How many times have you dated someone because you considered them to be “your type?” Sometimes people get involved with “their type” and then the relationship doesn’t work. They again find another person with the same qualities they consider “their type” and end up in another dead end relationship. Well if YOUR TYPE is not working out, maybe you need to change your criteria of what you’re looking for in a mate, because maybe “your type” isn’t working for you.

Women, if you only date men who are over 30 but younger than 35, you may be short changing yourself. The man for you might be 36 or 29. What if the man for you is a “blue collar” worker instead of part of the “white collar” world? Shouldn’t him being a hard worker, making an honest living count for something? Do you only date men who are tall versus short? Your Mr. Right, might be in a smaller package.

Men, you say you don’t want a “gold-digger” but are you really looking beneath the surface or do you only want a showpiece? Most women are independent, so men are you able to deal with the whole woman? If you treat her right, she will allow you to be the “king” in her world.

Are we too judgmental when it comes to looking for “our type?” What are some things you “just can’t do without” in a potential mate?   “Paige’s Web by Shelia M. Goss is so good. I can’t stop turning the pages!”

7 comments on “Is He or She Your Type?

  1. Pingback: My Ghillie » Is He or She Your Type?

  2. Shelia,
    you touched my soul with this one, sistas, had better KNOW that the brother you look over just might be the one to love you right, make you heart tight and be there all through the night…I am just saying…back in the day the sistas KNEW a MAN is as MAN…didnt have nothing to do with what he did, but who he was and how he made her feel…
    Thanks for this sista…

    Love and Blessings,

  3. Great post, sis. Before I met my husband, I made this list of 21 things the man of my dreams had to have/be/do. And number 21 was something like: if he love me, I mean really loves my stinky panties, then everything else on this list is negotiable.

    And I’m glad I added number 21 because that is really the most important thing. He loves me. And I’d be the first to admit that ain’t always easy. LOL. 🙂


  4. The first thing on my list is: I must be her type. She may look like the girl of my dreams but if I’m not the man of her dreams…why bother.

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